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I also wasn't trying to imply that anyone who lets someone else take their gear once in a while (division of duties and all) is a whiny girlie-girl. There are things that Jim can lift that I flat-out cannot, and other times I need his help with something (for some reason, this weekend, I was having a horrible time getting my antiquated Scubapro tank strap to unclip, and he was finally able to wrench the thing up). I have seen girls who love to stand around in "damsel in distress" mode, expecting men to serve them with everything and getting irritated if they so much as have to lift their own weight belt.
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