Think you just have!I don't speak simpleton
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Think you just have!I don't speak simpleton
Nothing in DIR is fiat.
[If you said that to me, verbal non respect is ALL you'd get.
I mean, if you want all of your instructors to call you something silly like ''Lady Buttercup", thats a great way to do it.]
The preface from DIR Fundamentals of Better Diving seems to insinuate that one gear configuration is applicable to all environments and all levels of divers. Im not against that configuration , just pointing out that they are promoting a “one size fits all” …in the very first paragraph of the text book no less.
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I’ve always found the “thinking diver” language to be an odd choice for a system with relatively rigid SOPs. If you’re not thinking about what gear to use or what is the best method to use, what exactly is the “thinking diver” contemplating? Compliance and contemplation are not inherently at odds with one another but the former could very likely be a symptom to indicate a lack of the latter.
I did overhear an experienced GUE diver who was assisting with a class refer to a fundies class as “making more drones”. I know how I felt hearing that, I wonder what they would think about it?
[If you said that to me, verbal non respect is ALL you'd get.
I mean, if you want all of your instructors to call you something silly like ''Lady Buttercup", thats a great way to do it.]
So if someone said that your first thought is to bully them the entire time? I find that to be quite disrespectful. I think an open and honest statement about expectations such as the one you responded to is great. It gives the instructor the chance to say "nope, you do not want to take my course" or "sounds good to me"
I come from a military background and love that style of training but I had one instructor who did nothing but degrade me and my team the entire time. You never did anything good. It all sucked and we were all going to die. All that did was turn us off to him. We eventually all stopped listening to anything he had to say. There is a way to train people using what many call "tough love" but without verbal abuse. You can tell divers things like "what you did at 17 minutes runtime killed all of you" but you also need to give some positive reinforcement and feedback.
Maybe you should read this on the HFID blog...and yes, I am very aware that Gareth is a GUE guy but as I stated earlier, we can all learn from everyone else and take what we need to be the best we can be. Which is why I follow along to what GUE posts as well as what many other groups and organizations post.
Most, if not all of them, would be OK with that. At the same time, all of them will look you extremely weird and for sure judge you negatively, because you throw some pretty charged assumptions there, and just asking can be offensive. If I was a GUE instructor I might be one of the few that might simply refuse to teach you, because it seems that you bring some baggage, and negative attitude towards the class, and you feel sharing it with me just because you read some random stuff online. I wouldn't never degrade you as a student, as a GUE-I, but also I wouldn't think that you came in the class with an open mind, making my life easier. I wouldn't think that I need to prove you by example "that I am one of the cool ones that are not assholes" because I won't be paid to resolve insecurities. I woould be paid to train divers that want to become better. It's not like that there not a constant queue of people willing to take the class and have a very positive mindset.So if person signed up and paid for a GUE course and stated to the instructor……. “Hey, just want you to know right up front that I’m taking this course strictly for the training, the skills, the equipment considerations and confidence building and I am 100% onboard with constructive critique and honest evaluation…….. but I’ve heard some stories on SB about GUE courses and you should know that I won’t be putting up with any verbal non-respectful **** from you or your team… and that you can expect that exact same level of respect from me……. are we cool with that?”
I can say that as a now retired PADI instructor, when I WAS teaching, I would have responded with something like…. “ I can assure you that these types of stories are not how either PADI or I roll, and yes I am cool with that. Now let’s go diving”.
Would most GUE instructors and DM's also be “cool” with that?