I've got quite a few tanks, including SCBA, and I'm an avid airgunner.
First off, my SCBA tank has a standard DIN fitting on it, so that shouldn't be a problem. If it were though, you could always just pick up a used valve from a junk tank. I have to get hydros on it every 5 years and mine is 6 years into it's 15 year lifespan. When it comes to toting a tank out into the field, I love SCBA.
What I'd probably do though is get two of the biggest, highest pressure tanks you can find and then rig them up as a cascade. This gets you the absolute maximum number of fills per fill. You use the first, (more depleted), tank to partially fill your small tank, bringing the pressure up to say 2200 psi or whatever the first tank has in it. Then you top it off to 3000 psi using the second tank. By doing this you conserve the high pressure air in the second tank and get more fills out of it while using more of the air in the first tank. You could even cascade all three of your existing tanks and use the 4500 psi tank for your final top off.
If someone is trying to save money by using this system what they will do is just get one tank filled at a time. So when their tanks are running low, they bring the one with the lowest pressure in to get charged, it then becomes the last tank in the cascade and the tank that used to be the final tank becomes the initial low pressure tank.