I hope I can contribute something here that touches on not only the subject, but also some of the tangents it has taken. Forgive any "long winded" ramblings..
I am new to the board...but not to diving. I hope it doesn't sound like blowing my own horn, but it probably is good to qualify comments with some sort of demonstrated experience level. I have been diving since I was 16, and am now 50+. Needless to say I have watched over the last 30+ years the amazing (and positive) encroachment of technology into the sport, as well as the changes to how the sport is carried out and taught because of new-found knowledge. Does anyone remember having to be able to swim a mile before even being considered for open water training? Needless to say that isn't a requirement these days.
I have taught (SSI Dive Control Specialist Instructor #389, my instructor was MI #7, Hal Watts, yes, THAT Hal Watts) and have nitrox and trimix certifications as well as a graduate of the Army scuba school down in the Keys. From 1978 to 1989 I was a police officer in the pacific northwest, and 7 of those years was a member of the department dive team. Our primary function was the recovery of evidence that was disposed of in Puget Sound, however we also functioned in a search and recovery capacity. I love diving and thought being on the dive team would be another way to extend my experience (it did) but as far as the "romance" believe me, you quickly learned there was none. A great deal of our dives were in someone's horse pond looking for a child that drowned or something similar. I remember one where we were tied to a line tender on the shore who would pull 4' of line each pass so we would not miss an area, because my buddy and I had our hands locked on each other's BC straps, and we couldn't see each other. The search was by feeling by hand...not by sight.
Frankly our policy about shared air was rather emphatic on the dive team. If your buddy is having issues, you share. That was based on the fact that you had to be, frankly, a hell of a diver to even be considered to be on the dive team, and what very few out of air situations we had were due exclusively to equipment problems...not because someone was not watching their gauges and ran out. Out of air situations were something we drilled on EVERY training dive. It became second nature to us. If you didn't agree with that policy it was a very simple choice, you didn't dive on the dive team.
Myself and one other officer were also responsible for investigation of dive related fatalities. I did 11...and ALL OF THEM except one were due to someone diving who had not been trained or certified...and was lent equipment by a "friend". The one where the diver was certified was a diver who had just moved to the area from a lifetime in Hawaii, bought a drysuit, immediately did a 90' dive his first time with it and between currents in the Sound (which he wasn't used to) the cold water (which he again hadn't experienced) and the differences in operating a drysuit, he went into panic and had an embolism when dropping his weight belt in an attempt to do an emergency surface. (Please, if you buy a drysuit and never have dove one, go easy with it to start with and if possible get some training in using it). In all fatalities we had strict policies we followed, including but not limited to, a complete analysis of the breathing gas by the University of Washington, test diving of the deceased's equipment in the same spot and conditions (tide conditions, time of day, etc) where the fatality occurred, and complete disassembly and check of the BC, regulator, cylinder and cylinder valve.
As far as public safety divers. I am sure there are some groups that are probably very proficient, and my hats off to anyone who wants to donate that kind of time. The group that existed where I worked scared the living daylights out of me. As I said, I am sure there are probably groups in the USA that are very very good, but these guys were fanatics about wanting to participate with the Police Dive Team. I learned a long time ago that when someone gets to the point of fanatical viewpoints, they are probably someone to generally avoid in my mind. Long story short, in meeting with their group, it was rapidly apparent that most of the membership were skilled at the level of still having to focus the majority of their attention on their diving, and would not be able to function effectively with what we were demanding of divers in terms of ability, that was being able to dive safely and effectively and be able to carry out an assignment at the same time. That plus if the police use you in that capacity, then you are held to the same standard of evidence handling, chain of custody, etc etc as a trained police officer, not to mention us now taking responsibility for their liability. In short...no...we did not use them and in fact didn't want them around.
So...500 psi? I usually do have that left when I finish. As far as invading that space? I have no problem whatsoever going in there if the circumstances dictate I must. In an out of air situation I am going to give my dive buddy my primary, I will go to my secondary, or in the event I am low on gas, I will use a pony bottle that I carry as my backup. The pony is for me...not the buddy. I will control the ascent of the out of air diver, as I would expect them to do the reverse unless we decide otherwise. In any event, I don't have any problem getting out of the water with less than 500 psi if it was because I had to give my buddy breathing gas. 500 is a target, and granted I try and hit it, but the funny thing is I remember when I learned we didn't even have spg's!
I totally agree with MikeFerrara as he hit it right on the nose. To be responsible (in my mind) you train to a level where problems are anticipated and can be managed. I love to dive, and am currently in a situation where pretty much everytime I dive it is with someone I have never dove with before. I will ALWAYS run through out of air/equipment failure procedures before we get in the water. I want to know exactly what to expect from them and what they can expect from me. If we are going to be diving together a lot, like a week on a liveaboard, I even go through the drill underwater with the person on a couple of dives just as a refresher. If I feel like that diver is a risk, I will politely decline from buddying with them. If we are going to be doing something deep, i.e. trimix, we WILL run out of air drills in the water before going down. No exception...I want you to know me and I want to know you before I get to 180' and find out we have a problem we can't deal with. Granted now we are in a different arena, and I would expect a buddy to have redundant regulators on their bottom mix gas, etc.
I think it was Vince Lombardi who said "How you practice is how you play" and if that isn't true in diving, I don't know what could be.