So your point is Stuff happens? Yes it does! With your car on the way as well! Each case is different and if they are dead you don't know what they were thinking! In how many dives? 200ft? A little beyond rec limits!!!! 45000 drivers died last year on Americas Roads! So see! I would rather be diving!
There's no question that I'd rather be diving ... but you're mixing your statistics, and dancing all around an issue you obviously don't understand. The sad thing is that it's also obvious you refuse to even try to understand.
Certainly each case is different. But one thing is constant ... the entire basis for diving with a buddy is to provide redundancy in the event of unforeseen circumstances. If I can't rely on my dive buddy to help me if needed, then I don't want to be in the water with that person.
My air isn't mine ... it's a team resource, just like my buddy's air is. We plan accordingly, which means that we determine how much air each of us is carrying, and decide at what level we should leave the deepest part of the dive ...
before the dive even starts. We base that decision on the amount of gas it would take to get us both to the surface safely if one of us should ... FOR ANY REASON ... lose access to our air supply.
No ... it's not rocket science. In fact, it's damn simple ... takes less than a minute to determine. Refusal to do it isn't an option with me ... it's a sign of laziness, or ignorance ... and not something I'll abide in a dive buddy.
But if you're not willing to do it ... if there's any question that you're going to hesitate to share your air with me in an emergency ... then I'm not diving with you.
You dive any way you want ... but personally, I'd never trust myself or anyone I cared about to dive with someone who thinks like you, because they're basically diving solo.
It's no wonder that you think panicked divers are the most dangerous things in the water. What is it, do you suppose, that causes them to panic? Maybe it's knowing that they're in the water with someone they can't trust ...
... Bob (Grateful Diver)