One point from your opening post confused me slightly. You wrote:
Am I understanding this correctly? With the knob fully turned in, you purge the second stage and sometimes it hisses, sometimes it doesn’t? If so, I would strongly suspect that the seat and orifice are not always meeting in the same plane, but occasionally at a slight angle.
Did you have a chance to check the following?
If possible, take a sharp, in-focus photo of the indent in the seat. If the depression is not evenly deep across the seat, this strongly suggests that the seat and orifice are meeting at an angle. In that case, the cause is almost certainly one of the issues listed in the last quote.
Another possibility is that the broach accepting the lever feet inside the barrel has one damaged side.
With the knob turned all the way in, the flow would often stop, but as soon as I took a breath or hit the purge slightly or touched the lever, it would start hissing again and not just a tiny hiss, but enough for me to call it a freeflow, although not a loud, violent freeflow. As for your other questions:
Lever feet: They seem fine and not bent. I tried the lever from my 109 second stage that works fine in the 109 and it acted the same (freeflow), although I should be able to take the lever out altogether and the reg shouldn't leak so I don't think the lever is causing it. I ordered a couple of the newer curly levers that you're supposed to use with the S wing poppet anyway.
The spring is straight and seems like new when I look at it up close.
It's hard to tell the condition of the threads in the barrel. The orifice screws in ok, but there's the resistance of the o-ring of course. It's not cross-threaded or anything. I ordered one of the new plastic orfices that Scubapro replaced the metal ones with, just to try out a new orifice.
As for the poppet seat, it has now formed a couple of minor indents, which is probably why the out-of-focus picture looked like it had am out-of-round indent. The problem with these regs is that you only get one chance to set it up. If you take it apart and re-assemble it multiple times, the orifice and seat don't match up exactly every time and you end up with a misaligned groove. I'm now leaning toward my issue being a orifice/poppet issue. I got the poppet from E-bay. They claimed it was OEM, but who knows. The length was the same as the old-style poppet. I think next, I'll try and find another S wing poppet or at least a new seat. My problem is finding a seller that doesn't charge $40-60 for shipping (to Canada). The real shipping cost for something that tiny that weighs almost nothing is around $14 (including customs brokerage). To pretend that shipping costs $40 and then pocket the difference is almost the definition of fraud, but all the sellers seem to do it.