Why wouldn't you just hand your pony to the person and make a safe ascent?
Your thinking seems a little flawed!
'Cause I don't want to...
And not once did I ever say I wouldn't save some one and have a number of times!
Ok, fine. I didn't say you did; some here may have thought that, but fine, ok, ty.
But it is my choice! It is my air! And my judgment and that's how you don't waste a life! The life you save might be your own!
Ok. I would use different wording to state along those lines, but ok.
I have counseled people who said "If I would have only" My answer is always "Better one life lost than two!" I hope non of them are reading your posts! Guilt is something suffered by the living!
I agree. Better one life than both. Do not forfeit yourself just so he doesn't die alone. At the time of the emergency, of course, you/I must decide in an instant what is prudent in our actions. In
my limited diving experiences, I have had to make a few
now decisions. I'm sure that mine would be different from the larger number you have had, in direct comparison you might not see mine as any big deal, but they were to me at the moment. So far, did ok. In my personal code, I will put my life and well being on the line in an instant to attempt to save another if I feel confident that I am not simply forfeiting my own as I was raised that way with cow work, farming before OSHA got involved, etc. As a pre-teen once I climbed the fence rather than face a wild bull who'd just trampled my father, but it was the right to do at the moment as I knew I had no chance of turning that charging bull, there was no point in doing so as he was escaping, and I had to save my butt so I could tend to my dad ASAP with full capabilities. Didn't have time for Stop, Breath, Think, Act those days - you just did your best immediately, but I generally did good without getting hurt much. The bull passed, I got dad to the house so mom could take him in for stitches, I went back and loaded the bull the way we should have in the first place and drove to the auction with him before dad could come back and get his shotgun out. That was over 40 years ago; a 12 yr old could drive a bobtail cow truck to a nearby town here without being bothered then, here.
Oh, back to why I don't hand my pony off? I bought it, paid significantly for the tank, sling, spg (I did win the reg, but it'd still cost me to replace it); I have since cared well for it, had it all serviced, carried it on trips, had it filled, carried on 200+ dives when I didn't need it, etc; and I am not turning it loose to some diver who might drop it at the ladder then say
"Thanks for the help. I didn't really need it, but thanks. Sorry about your lost pony. I can't pay for it now, but let me give you my phone email." I
will let him have all he wants of it as we search briefly for my buddy then start a prudent ascent with us holding each others BCs, and my buddy better be noticing or easy to find or he'll need to do his ascent alone. If all that works, fine; if he fights me, he loses until he is ready to do it my way.
Now, we have been asked by a Mod to not turn this into a rescue hijacked thread. I do hope you, your critics and I can all now cooperate with that request, take it to another thread if desired, and go back to the original subject.
TY