I have tried 2 wetsuits( new and dry) both are Akona Quantum Stretch. I tried an XL and it was too tight to zip at shoulders so I upgraded to a 2X. Now that I have recieved the 2X it seems very snug around the neck and seems to pull downward on my shoulders as well ad create a slight wedgie. I haven't got into the pull with it because if it doesn't fit then i need to return it. Problem is I have nobody to hep and no experience with wetsuits being a new diver. Having to order online can be a test! Should it fit like this dry and loosen up when wet or still need a bigger size?