I guess I come from a much more disciplined and documented diving world. When I go to another institution, despite my position in the community, I have to do a checkout (sometimes a written exam), and produce the logs that both qualify me for the dives that are planned and that document my current status.
I understand the situation that you found yourself in, but might I respectfully submit that just that sort of oversight is just what gets experienced and capable divers killed.
With respect to the number of dives question, I've (rarely) known divers who were ready at 100 dives to begin hypoxic dives, but then almost all their diving was done in a training situation with great instructors and mentors. More typically divers I known have reached that level with 500 or more dives under their belt.
Great trim and buoyancy control is typical of good divers, but not diagnostic. My divers, straight out of training, exhibit both ... but they're not ready to do those sorts of dives, in point of fact they are limited to 30 feet.
I also think it is funny when guys who have never been below 120’ are the one’s saying this.
What ever gave you that idea?