Dear MichaelG:
First, let me say that I truly hope that your symptoms subside over time and that you are suffering from some type of muscle strain or other non-DCS ailment.
Second, PLEASE stop for a minute and think about your last post. There are some knowledge gaps that must be corrected before you go near another dive.
First, it sounds like you are seriously underequipped for the environment. No lights, inadequate gas supply, lack of redundant backups and G-d knows what else. Get to a shop that you can trust (or post here, we will help) and find out what you need in order to dive safely. After picking our your equipment, get some instruction in how to use it. Don't tell me that you already know how. If you did, you might not be bent.
Second, whatever training you get should come from another shop and from a different instructor, particularly if your advanced instructor was the one who certified your OW class. You seem unaware of certain basic aspects of diving, including the proper use of the RDP, gas management, dive planning and the dangers associated with reverse profiles. Proper instruction will show you how to dive safely and within recreational limits.
Third, stop defending the instructor. He may be the nicest person on Earth, but that doesn't change the fact that you got bent when you were supposed to be under his instruction and after a totally negligent dive plan and brief. Leaving you alone violates standards and common sense. If you don't believe me, please explain why he wasn't supervising you and why you were doing an instructional dive with a non-instructor. In addition, please explain why an instructor would tell you to do your turn at 1500 lbs when, as posted earlier, such a maneuver would leave you with about 300 psi on the surface and no reserve. Finally, please explain why you were allowed to make the second dive after your first OOA instead of being put on the O2 bottle after the first ascent. The fact that you were not symptomatic is not relevant as O2 is a good way of preventing or minimizing DCS. I would not necessarily expect an OW diver to know this, but I damn well would expect it from the instructor, the DM and the boat captain. It could not have hurt and might have helped.
Fourth, you are placing blame everywhere but on yourself. If you are ready for so-called advanced diving, then you are ready for the responsibility of planning your dive, handling the RDP, managing your gas and equipping yourself properly.
The more I hear about your dives, the more I'm surprised that we aren't reading a post entitled "New Jersey Diver Dies On The Algol".
Once again, please READ the posts and incorporate them into your dive planning.