i think my point is being missed or twisted. i am not saying life is meaningless, my life has meaning to me. and the cancer thing was probably a bad example. i am not completely self serving, i volunteer at a children's hospice near where i live and have done other volunteer work. i know that can impact other people in a positive way but the point is my name wont echo through the ages like Odysseus, Shakespeare, Homer or Marie Curie . one of the biggest impacts i think i could have on this earth is to have a child which id love to do but as i get older that becomes more unlikely. but regardless of how much i help others and how fulfilled it makes me feel or how much it helps others doesn't change the fact we are in the grand scheme rather insignificant
the point i was making is that i (and presumably other millennials) would rather experience the world rather than spend all our money on a fancy 5 bedroom house and gas guzzling new car every 6 months and then not be able to afford to do anything but stay in that massive house with 3 more rooms than you need or that 8 seater monstrosity for your 3 person family. it is sad to see how many people want to buy a new car every 6 months because their neighbor buys one every 12 months and they want to outdo them, its childish in a way.
if you had a choice of a having a fancy car and house but never leaving your neighbourhood or having a house that suited your needs and a car that got you from A to B but wasnt a head turner but you could travel the world or anywhere you wanted which would you choose?
i bought a modest 1 bed flat rather than a house so i could continue to dive - like i said its a balance. without going into detail i nearly wasn't here 18 months ago and diving is one of the things that keeps me here and quite frankly is the only time i ever really feel free and relaxed and so i wont give it up
You were exaggerating. I was exaggerating. Both to illustrate a point by taking it to the extreme.
You do volunteer work. That is great and I don't mean the following to belittle that in ANY way. But, does it cost you money to volunteer? I'm guessing no, or not much. Could you quit at any time? I'm guessing yes. It's great that you do it, but the point is that it doesn't represent a serious commitment. Not like having a baby or buying a house. It's (probably) not even in the same league of commitments as paying for a bunch of training and buying a complete set of scuba gear. And commitments are the difference between an attitude of "I'm going to be right here, doing the best I can" and an attitude of "I don't matter and I don't know how long I will even be here".
You don't have to take the "I'm never going to cure cancer, so I just won't do anything" attitude to that extreme to still have that attitude play a significant role in your life. I'm not trying to single you out. You sound like a good person with a good attitude and a good head on your shoulders. I'm just pondering the difference in basic values between Millennials and older generations. The basics of your original post were presented as somewhat representative of Millennials in general and that jibes with what I see - what I live with on a daily basis, as my girlfriend and I live together and she is definitely a Millennial and exhibits many of the same attitudes that you described.
So, again, I wonder if that core value of "I'm not going to do anything that will be remembered in 100 years, so I may as well just enjoy life's pleasures" (to whatever extreme any given individual takes it) is a defining characteristic of Millennials and is also a significant contributing factor to some aspects of the way the scuba industry is changing. It seems that your original post was saying that it is. I am feeling inclined to agree.
Older generations tend to seek stability in their jobs, their homes, and their romantic relationships. Older generations value durability and consistency. Older generations are the ones saying "my XYZ broke. They sure don't make them like they used to!"
Millennials seem to be more inclined to job hop, and move around the country or world, and less likely to get married, settle down, and crank out babies. Millennials seem to be much more accepting of disposability in their every day purchases. A new $600 phone every year doesn't even raise an eyebrow. Older generations cringe at the thought.
So, yeah, as you brought up, that all seems to tie into why there might be a trend in the industry for divers to be less likely to pursue advanced training and to buy all their own gear. To many, and especially among Millennials, the entire hobby of scuba is relatively disposable. Plunk down a few hundred bucks, get a C card, do a few cool dives, then send the whole subject to the mental landfill. Older generations seem MUCH less inclined to have that attitude. If we spend a few hundred bucks to get into a hobby, by golly, we're going to do it more than 2 or 3 times.
I think older generations have more of a sense of permanence. Millennials seem to have more of an attitude of perpetual transience.
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