adventure dude
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I'm leaving in about an hour to teach a PDIC Solo Diver class to a NJ wreck diver. During our phone conversation he stated that everyone dives solo off NJ because you can't stay with your buddy in those conditions. After I discussed team procedures for no vis and lost mask situations, we agreed that divers choose to dive solo and that there are no conditions which force solo diving.
Divers either believe they must dive solo because they don't possess the team skills needed when task-loaded or in poor visibility. Boat operators may choose buddy teams as easily as asking, "Who here doesn't have a buddy?" But, team diving is a skill much the same way as other team sports require practice and discipline. Solo divers who choose to solo because of poor team skills paint solo divers as undisciplined the same way team divers are often branded as being incapable of going it alone. There is a lot of ignorance surrounding team and solo diving. During the first dive in solo class, the diver learns the benefit of diving as a unified buddy team while we examine critical skills. Some divers have never been exposed to disciplined team diving and it is a chance to present the option to remove some ignorance from the mind of a prospective solo diver so he or she can choose to solo dive for right reasons rather than wrong ones.
What is a right reason? Much the same as choosing to go hiking, to the mall, to shoot baskets, or for a walk on the beach by oneself. You simply wish to enjoy doing something without company. You could get mauled by a bear, robbed at a mall, encounter gang members by choosing the wrong hoops, or knocked over by an unexpected wave. Having friends with you at all times during life makes us safer. If we are mauled by a bear a friend can administer first aid and get help. If we are with two or three friends at a mall, we are less likely to be targeted by a robber. If we are shooting baskets with friends and gang members are unhappy about our choice of courts, there may be less chance of violence because there is strength in numbers. If we get knocked into the sea by a wave, a friend can rescue us or find a lifeguard.
Scuba diving is just another part of our world and our daily lives. As much as it may seem to be separate and unusual, it isn't. While you are at your computer this moment, imagine all the dive boats in all the world that went our today either loaded or partially loaded with divers. Right now, someone is probably diving alone or with a buddy. Sometimes accidents happen while alone and sometimes they happen with a buddy. A woman is probably safer being escorted by a big burly bodyguard as she goes about her daily life. Her chances of being a victim of crime are greatly reduced. But, how many of us would say that women don't have the right to choose to live their lives without escort? Or, women who choose to go to the mall alone or for a run in the park in the middle of the day are stupid? It's unrealistic for a woman to live her life paranoid and to abandon her personal space and freedoms for fear of encountering a serial killer or out of fear that she may find herself in a dangerous situation. Having to have a companion when she wants to do an activity alone, would take away from the joy of that activity. There is an elevated risk for a woman running alone in a park, but many women do just that every day and find joy and peace of mind on the bricks alone. All of us are slightly more vulnerable underwater, but many divers find joy in being there alone.
Nice post. Well thought out.