I had to come in and break the tie between "I am a smoker, so no comment," and "I don't smoke, and I don't care if you do."
How ironic that not too long ago, I'd have had to pick the first one. Now I can break the tie with the "I don't smoke" option.
Non-smoking is wonderful. And yes, the craves do go away. The people who tell you they don't are those people just looking for excuses to keep smoking.
I'm free. No regrets. I'm very happy like this. The best is that what I WANTED to be and what I AM are now the same thing. I no longer beat myself up over this... And that's the real beauty of non-smoking. The second benefit, and almost as huge, is the obvious health reason.
Someone above likened the addictin of nicotine to drug or alcohol addiction. I contend that while nicotine might not be as dramatically destructive to one's lifestyle (they don't pull you over and give you a blood/nicotine test), any doctor in the world will tell you that nicotine is by far the most addictive substance known to man. I've heard that it's many times more addictive than even heroin. Just ask any "recovering alcoholic" or "recovering substance abuser;" The people who have gone through the notorious 12-step programs often still smoke. When I've asked these people how they can quit Jack Daniels or cocaine or pot, but not cigarettes, they look at me with disbelief and say, "Man, I was barely able to quit the drug... There's no way I can quit smoking..."
As a society, we downplay the addictive nature of nicotine because the action of smoking tobacco is socially acceptable. I'm telling y'all that the substance is worse, and much more likely to kill a person. With an average of 15 "hits" in a cigarette and 20 cigs in a pack, your average pack-a-day smoker gets 300 "hits" a day. When was the last time you heard of someone doing coke 300 times a day? The substance is much less potent, but considerably more addictive. It's nothing to play with, and it will kill you.
That said, I still feel that it's the smoker's right to choose to smoke, just as I feel that someone has the right to kill themselves.
...And there are a lot of reasons to choose or not to choose a dive buddy. For me, smoking would not be one of them, believe it or not. But if I've got to wait for you underwater because you're huffin' and puffin', then we ain't buddying again, you know?
...So my choice would have nothing to do with smoking. However, it would have to do with other things that may be affected by smoking.
See, I don't want to miss out on great dive buddies just because of my choice to quit smoking. So what? That's my choice... You're entitled to yours too.
As far as I'm concerned, there's no issue until the dive becomes a problem due to someone's lack of physical fitness... Which could be due to smoking, obesity, asthma, or just plain ol' laziness.
