Forgive me for not having personal experience with this skill,
2 phreakin phunni! It's OK. I wasn't taught to buddy breathe in my OW class either. I noticed the calming down when I had to do it for my Dive Master Gear Exchange. I had one student that just couldn't get over her anxiety. On her seventh OW session, I experimented with buddy breathing while sitting on the bottom (my kneeling days). Wow. It really got her in a rhythm and she lost her anxiety. We bddy breathed three times and swam a bit, but not far. After that, I started using this exercise more and more often. Now, most of my students buddy breathe when it's the next logical step in their training. Class gets easy after that.
The skill goes like this... The donor holds the hose right by the reg in their fist. The receiver holds the donor's wrist tightly. Tightly like they don't want to lose their source of breathing tightly. I take two breaths and pass it off. I pass it off after I finish my second inhalation, so I'm exhaling, albeit slowly, while the other diver is taking their two breaths. Breathe in, exhale, breathe in, PUSH the reg away, and continue to exhale slowly. I would like enough air left to just clear the reg when my partner pushes the reg back to me immediately after their second inhalation. It's all about timing and confidence. The exercise helps the student to get a cadence to their breathing and calms them down considerably. A caveat: at the beginning of the exercise, before they get their timing down, I usually only take one breath and quite often they take more than two. I've patiently waited through five breaths on occasion, but I have my limits. As the student gets the hang and their timing down, I'll start taking two breaths. If they really got their act together, I might go for three and one time I took four.
I quickly back down how many times I breathe if they get excited. I want to gently stress them and not freak them out.
You see,
@2airishuman ? You push the reg away when you've inhaled the second time. Your lungs will be full. There ain't no way around it.
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