pnevai:
In situations such as this I join the DM led group and conveniently drift away, 99.9% of the time my absence is never noticed.
Actually, when I'm diving with a group, I ride herd, keeping them from drifting away and watching out for any problems cropping up. My solo diving is certainly for the convenience of not having to conscript a buddy, but perhaps equally significant is that by solo diving, I am responsible for myself and myself only. I have not yet completed my DM certification, but that's a technicality -- I've had a DM-like mindset of a from the beginning.
In diving with a group (not *as* a group -- that leads to much confusion), I'm just not going to disappear unannounced (although there have been times when I've arranged beforehand that I have a task to accomplish). Anyway, it's not really that relevant to me, regardless. The places I dive that only allow solo with a card are almost all places like privately-run quarries.
There is no DM. There is no group. You show up, sign some forms, pay some cash, and dive. The problem is, the ones that permit solo diving only with a card want to know your buddy when you fill your forms and pay your money. You can't just waltz through and casually dive solo. Some of them even tag you, and some may stop solo divers to check their "papers" (no, not real paper...).
It's really annoying to me to have to walk around a quarry trying to find someone who would allow me to tag along with them. Frankly, I almost tend to suspect anyone who *will* let a random, unknown diver from hundreds of miles away dive with them out of the blue -- I've had too many bad experiences with that very thing. It doesn't seem polite to me to invite myself into someone else's dive, and rarely are we good matches, anyway. If they're highly skilled divers, they're likely to temper their profile due to an unknown coming along (which isn't fair to them), and if they're not, I'm likely to end up having an okay but not really satisfying dive.
Anyway, guess none of this was really on-topic, but since the topic is on hold until I hear back from Atlanta, I suppose it's fine. :biggrin: The long and short of it is that I want to dive solo at some places that permit it only with the card, that those places tend not to have "led" dives (rendering the suggestion of going AWOL moot), and that I am not the type to go AWOL on a led dive (probably because I've been the one to try to keep the cats together).
Oh, and by the way, I'd catch you.