I am crazy pants!You don't need it fully open, that's crazy pants. Go half or 1/4 open and adjust from there. If not you'll be venting and puffing back up at the slightest rotation or movement of your arm.
Idk, I keep mine open all the way 95% of the time. It's nice when coming up to just have it vent without messing with anything. The only time I close it if I'm not in trim for some reason.
This could be the difference between 4E undergarments being more dense, less likely to compress... not sure.