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diverintheflesh
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Not sure what to answer here... but it does hit home in a certain way, because my personal circumstances changed this year. Before 2019 I would do on average about 100 dives, about 20 of them teaching dives, 30 training dives and the others or cave or wreck dives of various depths (40-90m).
This year I became the proud father of a beautiful son (born in February)... so when I did my first dive end of March my saldo should have already been 25-30 dives in a normal year... instead of just my first. So far being mid year I've amassed the grand total of 15 dives, and I'm happy about that taking care of a baby together with my girlfriend and also working part time abroad.
So how many dives are enough. Well for recreational diving I could easily take a couple of year hiatus and be able to dive comfortably within 1-2 dives (meaning trim and buyoancy being on level). For deeper diving or cave diving it would think it should be different. However dives 8-11 this year were deepish T2 dives (50-70m range). I was at a local dive base and a GUE T2 instructor invited me to join his class' experience dives. Since there were just 2 students I was to be the 3rd student. I told him that my last deep dive had been almost a year ago and I hadn't practiced my skills a lot, but still I joined on those dives. In the end I felt comfortable (also being a "student" and participating in some of the "issues" they encountered during the dives), even comfortable enough to play around a bit.. at deco depth (stealing the instructors tanks, etc).
Now I'm plugging in my breather again... but for sure I'll be diving it just in recreational range for a long time after a 1 year hiatus... because I'm just not familiar with the machine.
So after this long answer... still don't know what to answer ;-)
Congratulations on becoming a father...!!! That's the greatest specialty course you'll ever take!
That begs an interesting perspective not mentioned yet... I do know parents that have curtailed the more technical dives after children have arrived, even some parents that don't dive together anymore...
This would be an interesting concept to explore more of...
Thank you for your contribution.