Obviously, I don't know the nature of your PM, but my first thought is that I'd rather not get obnoxious PMs. I get enough obnoxious SPAM.
I'm sure you are credible, and could make good choices, but not everyone on the 'net can. Anonymous sites like this, but without censorship, encourage perverts and weirdos.
I believe that we should be willing to give up a little freedom in order to keep the site a little nicer.
Again, I doubt if your post falls into these categories, or you wouldnt be complaining publicly. But I do believe that we should be willing to give up a little personal freedom to keep the site a little nicer.
I do agree but we have to be given some latitude, even god gave us the option to make decisions. If some one abuses the system then deal with them just like on the main board.
What I said was whilst trying to catch a gator I fell in the lake and it scared the s**t out of me (fully spelled) when it was received it came out as ****. All I ask is give us a little leeway