I asked about a p-valve when I bought my Fusion a couple of years ago. I was advised against getting a valve. I took their advice and have not regretted it yet. I use the John once before setting up my gear and a last right before zipping in. I am yet to wet myself or scramble out of the water in terror. If after a few dives, you decide you need it, you can get one added.
For some types of diving, where you are going to be in the water for several hours, a p-valve may make sense. I am yet think gluing my winky into a tube is out weighed by the risk of wetting myself.
P.S. I recommend the band-aid approach, one sharp pull and your troubles are gone (and probably most of the hair).
P.P.S. While figuring this out, avoid eating asparagus,