Fortunately, diving accidents are rare. If we look at the deaths that have happened to members of ScubaBoard.com we've lost the most to natural causes or surface accidents and much fewer to diving accidents. When an accident happens it captures people's morbid fascination. A diving accident is more "romantic" to the media than slowly killing ourselves with an unhealthy diet.
Those who don't feel comfortable diving alone or who think solo diving is too risky will most likely always believe so. Those who enjoy outdoor sports alone and believe they are able to solo dive safely will do so. Diving is a sport. An individual or a team competes with nature for enjoyment. Most of the time we do not get attacked by sharks, suffer pressure injuries, or drown. Safety is up to an individual and how we perceive what is "safe."
I just recently - as in last month - got my OW certification. Now all I can think about is going diving! There's one problem....I'm certainly not experienced enough to dive alone but I don't have anyone to dive with.
How am I supposed to start building my dive experience?
Does anyone have tips for finding dive buddies?
Is the best option just chartered dive with my LDS until I meet someone and we hit it off?
Anyone have a good story of how you got started?
Obviously, going diving as much as you can will build experience. Going to the same site several times in a row while becoming acquainted with it and familiar with your gear will help you become more comfortable. It's nice to learn a site, learn good entry/exit points, discover how to navigate it and maybe see things in a way experienced divers no longer do or never did. Just play and have fun.
You can find dive buddies at your dive shop and visit other dive shops and make friends at other shops too. Divers are very open to new buddies. If you are very social you may enjoy a dive club. Or, if you have a special underwater interest you can find a group of niche participants such as treasure hunters or spearos. Facebook is a great tool to connect with the community. No one owns you. Shops love to talk about "their divers" but that's BS. As a Texan, you probably understand freedom. Don't let shops try to get you to "go pro" or chase a whole bunch of continuing ed courses. Never lose sight of why you wanted to dive because the industry has a way of making you give all your money to the industry rather than spend it on yourself.
I started diving at 13 at the headquarters of a major training agency, so I was owned, indoctrinated, enslaved, and professionaled from the start. In some ways, it gave me a life far beyond my expectations. In other ways, I lost something. I'm treasure hunting myself now. Not for gold or silver, but I'm on a mission to find the kid in me and unchain myself from an industry that has forgotten the "sport" aspect of sport diving.