By repetition and practice. In class, in pool, in open water, everywhere. What you said isn't an execuse.I can’t see how new divers should be expected to remember yet another signal.
What if there is no need to end the dive, perhaps just move away from the grass area that is making you seasick because of its movement? Giving a little details to your buddy about your issue isn't going to hurt, it may help in the response and how to handle the ascent.Second, with my limited experience, if I was sick and wanted to end the dive, I just signal “not okay” then “end the dive”. Or just “end the dive” because even after these years, I remember that “end the dive” is not a request, and if your buddy signals it, you end the dive and accompany your buddy to the surface, no questions asked.
At the end, you don't like the sign, don't use it.