I've done the mistake of discussing with someone with several thousand dives before, so I guess I'm setting mysef up for some serious bashing here. But, dude, what you're claiming is contrary to everything that's known and published about nitrogen narcosis.
Most wont feel much of anything and those that believe they might are likely to feel the results of apprehension and elevated CO2 far more than Narcosis. Training agencies chose 130' as a recreational depth limit because Narcosis is so minimal for the great majority of people, in addition to being near the edge where staying within NDLs is reasonable.
What kind of narcosis are you talking about here? The stupid drunk we all hear stories about during OW class, with antics like trying to donate air to a passing fish? Or the mental tunnel vision and sluggishness that starts to creep up on most people already before 30m/100ft, but which an experienced diver usually doesn't feel because he's got enough spare mental bandwith that the slight impairment isn't noticeable unless someting happens that requires all available mental capacity?
At work, I use my brain rather than my body. Sometimes quite hard. And if I'm going to work in the evening, I don't even allow myself a single beer for dinner because I've noticed lots of times that that single beer is enough to take the edge off my thinking. I don't feel drunk, I don't even feel tipsy, but I know that I'm losing my edge. And since I'm very much aware of my mental capacity, I can quite easily notice when my mind doesn't run at full speed. Same thing with narcosis. Somewhere below 25m/80ft, I start noticing that I'm losing the keenest edge of my mind. It runs slower, and I have to concentrate just a little more to avoid mental tunnel vision. Sometimes, I have to check to notice, other times it's quite noticeable above 30m/100ft.
It's the same as with drunk driving. Every frikkin' test has shown that a BAC of less than 0.05% will impair the driver, dulling reflexes and reducing the ability to multitask. Even so, quite a few drivers will claim that they can drive just fine, even after several beers or glasses of wine. Sure, if your only task is to keep the car on the road. But if you need to handle an emergency, you might well be scrwed. How about you? Since you claim that no-one is narked above 130ft, do you think it's OK to drive with a BAC level of 0.05-0.1%?
Same thing with a rec diver with moderate experience: He might feel just fine, but he's got enough mental tunnel vision to be unable to handle an emergency he hasn't trained and drilled for.