If you are lacking flexibility in a neo suit, it more than likely does not fit you properly. My Seasoft moves and if necessary stretches with me. As far as warmth and durability goes, no complaints. I wear 100 gr under suit in 34*F water and remain warm for dives that will last as long as 1hr 10 minutes. Biggest problem with any drysuit is the need for a PEEE vavle!!!!
My neo is 4mm thick, stiff, heavy and bulky. It fits me very well. My LDS has fit the same style of suit for dozens of divers and know what they are doing. I prefer to wear several flexible undergarments under a trilam than a thin undergarment under a bulky neo. But that is me.
I like a pee valve in a drysuit. No way I am going to pee in a wetsuit because I do not want to swim in my pee. If there is enough water flow to flush it when I am diving then the suit is allowing too much water in to keep me warm.