A bit late to the party on this one, but it touches on a subject of some interest to me.
So I just bought a 40 cu/ft tank from LP . . . . go to get it a visual and fill . . . . the shop owner asks me where I got the tank from, then refuses to service it on the grounds that buying online kills LDS.
It is his right / privilege to do so. Like other respondents, I think his behavior and attitude are asinine. And, it is his right and privilege to be asinine, as well. That doesn't help business, but sometimes people can't see the forest for the trees.
Never mind the fact I have signed up for the dive club, was talking to an employee about continuing courses there and had bought tidbits there.
Not really relevant. You are 'talking to them' but haven't bought classes, you have bought tidbits, etc. You are not (yet) a valued customer based on history. But, as I said, his behavior is asinine.
Then he goes on to tell me he is charging less then online shops.
Out of curiousity, is this true? Could you have purchased the bottle from him for less? You might use that statement as a seque to a discussion (see below). We charge a price that is 'eventually' cheaper - if you add in the cost of the cylinder, the cost of shipping, the cost of the first VIP and the cost of 10 air fills - our selling price, which includes all of these items, is ultimately cheaper than LP, or ST. But, if someone buys online and brings it to us for VIP and fill, we are happy to do that.
I know he just lost my business completely (closest shop is an hour away. But am I being unreasonable here or should I try and talk to him about this decision and it's ramifications?
I won't say you are being unreasonable at all. Possibly a bit impractical, though. So, I will disagree with some of the other posts. Email him, tell him that you were surprised - and disappointed - by the vehemence of his behavior, but you would like to discuss it more with him. You would like to know what he means by '
he is charging less then online shops'. You might get him to see a different view, he might ultimately appreciate your giving him a second chance, etc. And, he might be right - it would have been cheaper to buy from him, in which case you say, 'Thanks, I didn't realize that. In the future, I will know better.'
If he continues to be a jerk, you haven't lost a lot, and you still have to drive an hour.