I have the exact same suit and the same basic problems. I swore I was going to have an aneurism just trying to get my hands through the wrist holes. I needed a big guy to push while I shoved to get my hands through and it took a long time and I was exhausted and panting by the end. I tried pantyhose, conditioner, bags, nothing helped much. Then I read on SB that someone had a problem like mine and that it would be easier to get hands through the wrist holes if you stretched the suit out by putting cans of soup in the wrists for a couple days before you wore the suit. I tried it and now I can get the suit on in a reasonable amount of time without killing myself - its not perfect, but much much better. And also, it does get better as you wear the suit more - it doesn't seem like it will, but perseverence does pay off - I'm wearing mine again this weekend and this is a reminder to put the cans in!