NetDoc:
Apparently my best was not good enough for you. For this I apologise.
In his second response to you he indicated you were pissing him off, and still you continued asking.
pete, there is no need to apologize ... i know you cleaned the thread without malice .. i never said you have failed me on anything .. there is no need to apologize
you said that i was abusive to cdiver. i responded by saying that i was asking him the same question several times because i did not understand his answers
someone telling me that i am pissing them off means, to me, that is their problem and they need to do something about it
someone telling me that they want me to stop talking to them means to me that i need to stop talking to them. which i would have done had he asked me to. he never did. he never said that he no longer wanted to talk.
see the difference?
when he told me to stop talking about his wife, i did, even though i didn't understand
if he had asked me to stop talking to him, i would have stopped.
the only thing i object to is you stating that my four or five times asking the same question in a civil tone is "abuse"
that just doesn't compute with me
my goal is not to get you to apologize, but to communicate with you and reach an undersatnding, even if that understanding is that we disagree on a particular point