I realy don't understand why non solo divers come to this forum . . . have nothing to add . . other than, how we are going to die. . .
I don't think it is surprising at all.
SB seems to have a large number of followers, so increase the viewpoints of the audience and you increase the likilyhood of just about any response.
SB seems to have a larger number of newly certified divers, so the experience base necessarily limits how broadly the audience can approach a seasoned response. (BTW, it does please me to see that there are so many newer divers and that SB attracts so many daily posts.)
Most newly certified divers - and a large number of their instructors, IMO - have been indoctrinated as to what is safe and what is not safe in diving. Instructors who never leave the world in which they teach are forever locked into what they were taught and what they now teach. No excuse for that. But a newer diver, who is encouraged to post on places like SB, has his or her entire life to grow outside of their training and most, if they stick with diving, will. And one very important part of that growth will come from seeing how other people are diving.
I remember the first time I did a tech dive. It was to 140 or 150 feet, and I was extremely anxious because it had been drilled into my head that going over 130 feet wasn't safe. Up until that point I would have probably replied to a SB thread concerning depth (if I had been on SB) that anything over 130 feet was stupid and dangerous.
Same for my first cave dive, my first dive over 300 feet, my first solo dive, and my first solo cave dive.
It's just normal for people to tell you their opinions and for their opinions to be rather narrow until they have had time to mature in their diving.
Personally, I find all of the solo discussions on all of the diving boards to be pretty low key these days, as it seems almost every experienced diver is doing them, and they don't pack the "it's new" punch they use to. Let me say that I have every bit the same respect for an experienced diver who isn't doing them, up until the point that he or she starts telling us why solo diving is so stupid and dangerous. You will just never weed those people out of a forum, only from your diving friends.
Going back to the Scuba=Dudes' original comments, it's just natural for the non-solo divers to jump on a solo diver's post. Still, the more they see that agencies are teaching solo diving, the same way they teach OW diving, the more they will get it. The more they hear people like me talking about 5 & 6-hour solo dives as being routine, the more it will click that there is more to diving than they have probably considered up to that point.
So, let's encourage the inexperienced and the experienced doubters to jump in and take another look at what the world of diving really looks like. Even if they never become solo divers they will necessarily become better and, hopefully, safer divers.