Thanks for the comment about practicing buddy skill. I remembered one of you posted how you have to interview 2 or 3 divers before you can find a suitable buddy.
I had 2 bad buddy experiences, and they were both on night dives. One was a night dive with my PADI advanced class. The kid was about 18, and was assigned to me by the instructor. He did not know where I was most of the time. He wanted to hang around the large water exhaust at Electric beach in Oahu. The vacumn next to the exhaust blew me far from shore and onto the surface. The second time my buddies were 2 fellow physicians. They assurred me that they know how to night dive. I went out on his boat for lobster hunting. The two of them shared one dive light. I loaned them one of my 3 lights. It was a night mare. We were supposed to be in 20 ft of water or less, and we were actually anchored in 60 plus feet. The boat drifted away..... I didn't have prescription goggles then.... Couldn't see the boat when we surfaced.....
So, I am very anxious about diving with a buddy. Unfortunately my wife says that she will not take scuba until hell freezes over... So that's why I find spare air and pony an interesting safety net...