I don't think we should even try to address that demographic. I sure won't. Those people are going to show up to the boat, put on whatever weight the crew tells them, bounce around and break coral for 45 minutes give or take, and then get back on the boat. Do it again at the next dive site.
And there's not a thing anyone can do about that. It is what it is.
But there in lies the problem right? As potentially the largest group of divers doing dives on any given day, for a variety of issues them having issues represents the largest threat or issue in the dive community. They are the most likely to have an issue underwater and the least likely to be able to deal with it ( poor/rusty skills, unfamiliar gear, poor weighting, etc). Not saying I have an answer. Unfortunately too few instructors take the time to work with students in OW to dial in bouyancy/trim (like is quite apparent you do) and set them up for success and too many operators are more interested in quick turning their boats (and overly weighted divers are an "easier" problem to deal with than under-weighted). One of the more systemic issues I've observed in the sport.
For divers and instructors that care, there are a whole host of ways to help and your blog does an excellent job of highlighting them. I think we in full agreement about what should be taught both in course, and done by individual divers post-course.