...I don't think you realise how much damage you do to scubaboard by implying to newbies who might happen across your posts in nearly everything you write :
- you suck
- your instructor sucks
- your agency sucks
- the industry sucks
and doing that with what I believe to be a cynical and negative undertone.
Rob, people hear what they want to hear. I have:
- NEVER said that you (or anyone else) suck!
- NEVER said that your instructor sucks!
- said that the agency standards are lower than they once were (they are)
- stated that I disagree with the ability to give a c-card to a non-swimmer
- disagreed with the policies of dive resorts to take inexperienced divers past the maximum depth limits of recreational diving as a matter of routine.
I see that misinterpretation is a major problem. I guess I don't like people putting words in my mouth; especially words that I haven't said.
I know you're not the only one, but I see you as the ring-leader and I personally believe that while you *could* be a fantastic asset to the board, you are, at this time, being very unhelpful to the target audience. It frustrates me to the point that I lose my temper with you and that's something that I end up regretting every time we butt heads.
This is not a conspiracy Rob. We each have opinions. You may not agree with mine, nor I yours. That doesn't mean insults are in-order.
I do believe that it would take very little for you to change your message from (to pick an example) saying something to the effect, "your instructor doesn't know what he's doing" to saying something like, "I believe it would be best if you learned ABC in this-or-that way." The first way, denigrates and insults people and the second teaches them something. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a POV (I have many myself) but sometimes the delivery does more harm than good. I guess when we talk about POV warriors, we're really talking more about delivery than anything else.
Again misquotes; I've never said "your instructor doesn't know what he's doing." Don't you see that it's wrong to put words into someone's mouth that they didn't say? Wouldn't you feel slighted if I started making false claims about what I thought you said?
Either provide a direct quote of mine in any thread where I've used these words, or stop spreading around statements that were never spoken. Perhaps this is what you believe, but these are not my words. People hear what they want to hear. I can't do anything about that.
However, through many of these arguments, it would appear that there is nothing anyone can do to get this across. I hate the fact that the board has to tolerate so much negativism and I am not alone in that. I guess I'll have to stop fighting it because I keep making myself look like an idiot and a troll but nothing can make me like it.
I also believe that the Board should stop harassment of its members. I will agree with you that arguing about things of which we disagree, doesn't solve anything. I for one don't want to argue, but I'll continue to express my opinion in a truthful manner and expect that you will do the same.