Current picks up, and is going to push you far from the boat. Aggressive marine life. Weather picks up, and you get a recall signal from the boat. Could be more.
In these cases, I would likely consult my computer and choose to skip if SurfGF looks OK.
Whilst there may be reasons to blow off some decompression stops, e.g. a diver rescue, or through loss of gas (we can't fix drowning, but we potentially can fix DCI). If I'm rescuing another diver, how much personal risk I am happy to expose myself too? For my partner, a lot, for some insta' buddy, a lot less.
There's no real excuse for blowing of deco stops for current. If you are diving in tidal waters, you have a plan.
Either using Jon lines if you are using the shot, or DSMB's. In addition you should have a fixed (maximum) dive time for all divers.
For most dives, a DSMB is preferred. If it is an extreme dive with a lot of decompression, then a shot and a trapeze, You can hook in to the trapeze (with the Jon line), initially whilst you are waiting for the rest of the divers, Once you are all on the trapeze you release (the trapeze) and drift with the tide.
(The other reason for using the shot, is if you are in controlled waters. i.e. you can't drift across the harbour entrance. But special measures and permissions would apply).
If you have weather issues, once you are in the water you are not going to know. You should know about potential weather problems in advance, part of the dive planning. Generally the only thing you can do is complete any stops at 6m rather than 3m if it is getting lumpy.
A recall from the boat, is really a signal to end the dive now. You would still be expected to complete the dive safely. Even if the boat is dealing with an incident, the last thing they need are multiple further incidents caused by divers missing decompression. That would really complicate things.
Aggressive marine life, I can see the argument. Its not an issue I have had to address.
It should also be remembered that the vast majority of dive computers don't have a surfaceGF display. (The only one I am sure of are some of the Shearwaters, possibly all.)
The nearest alternate option is those who dive two computers, one with an aggressive decompression setting for emergencies, and one with a 'safe'(?) setting which they follow for the planned dive.
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@tbone1004 says. I wouldn't have a special signal for blowing off the decompression.