Good to see you recover fast to tell the story. The condition was definitely not a good one, even for day trip, not to mention night dive. The instructors should have called the dive.
While the instructors were responsible for conducting AOW in condition not suitable for class, you are a certified diver, you should call your own dive. Scuba diving is not for everyone, especially night diving. People freak out, experience claustrophobia, uncontrolled hyperventilation, vertigo
. All these contribute to high consumption of air, which seems to be in this case. The reg is design for normal breathing, your chest muscle will over work to try to hyperventilate through your reg and may contribute to chest pain. 30 min continual hyperventilate trying to suck more air out of a reg will probably contribute to sore chest muscle for a few days.
The condition of the sea seemed to keep the instructors busy and did not attend to your needs. Many instructors, DM/guides nowadays have less than 150 dives experience. Not to mention having experience dealing in challenging situation. You, therefore, should hold yourself responsible to your own safety. If you learned it is important to plan your dive then dive your plan, then follow it. If you learn it is important to call a dive when condition is beyond your skill/comfort zone, then do it. No one know you/your skills better than you do.
While it was not a good experience, I hope you will find some courage to continue this sport and enjoy its many reward. Safe diving.