DaleC
Contributor
It's hard to recognize how chill you are DaleC, considering how you went for the jugular in your first post.
It sounded to me like the OP was looking for others to provide a loophole to justify actions that went against her stated beliefs, otherwise, why provide that personal information up front. I thought it was a discussion regarding her ethical values and decided not to waste time chasing the red herring of justifying the violation.
If I had known, as it turns out, the OP was just wanting to collect stories from others I might have responded in a different way and talked about myself more. I might have described the experience I just had in Port Hardy of momentarily wanting to feed wolf eels urchins but then refraining because it violated my values in that area. I might have described how easily I almost forgot those beliefs in the moment, due to the excitement of wanting to see something interesting. My mind could have gone to all sorts of justifications regarding how it was the eels natural food source, there were plenty of urchins around etc... but I could not get past the fact that I would be intentionally taking one animal out of its habitat and causing it to die, just so I could see something cool.
I might have also described my struggles with giving up fishing, which I really really enjoyed, because I could no longer justify what I was doing to the fish in the name of entertainment. I may have expanded a bit on the fact that sometimes my values conflict with some activities that I might otherwise enjoy but, if I were to drop those values whenever a better offer came along, they wouldn't really be beliefs at all. Sort of like marriage vows and Los Vegas.
I might also have added that those are only my beliefs and I don't hold others to the same decision making process. In Port Hardy my good friend did feed an eel (because she does not share that belief) yet she did not swear. I, on the other hand, swore a lot, because I don't have any ethical values in that area.
I might have ended by saying that I don't wear my beliefs out on my sleeve for everyone to see or use them to define who I am as a person; they are not descriptors. They are just the personal framework I choose to use in which to live my life.