It sounds like you're somewhat arbitrarily moving things around hoping to land on a good combination at some point. You might consider a 2-step approach: 1) arrange for good/stable trim with near empty tanks and empty wing. Move lead, shift tanks, etc., all while still being able to manipulate valves. Then 2) position the wing to yield that same trim using full tanks. This will give stable trim throughout the dive, avoid over-weighting, and I suspect the backup elbow won't be smashed against the plate.
On the flip side, it may not be possible to do #1 with an empty wing. Tech gear can be... heavy.