****Moderator Post****
Hi everyone,
I have been contacted via via about this thread as it's causing some unintended anguish where none is intended.
First, to the family members who might be reading these posts as 'guests' - I would like to extend my deepest sympathy and condolences for the loss of this person. It's clear that as with everyone, there's always a human reality that's actually real behind the surface 'story'. On this board we are all divers and we really know that to be true. The last thing on anyones mind is to cause more pain and upset than is already present.
However, that said, BECAUSE we are all divers when things go wrong we try hard to work out why and how to possibly prevent it in the future. We don't want people to keep repeating mistakes and causing more deaths that sometimes could have been avoided. I'm not saying one way or the other if this accident was like that - many aren't the first time they happen....but we hate repeats. Trying to understand diving accidents is often very difficult and can involve speculation. Mostly many of the facts are unknown, or not shared by those that do know. This means that serious people make honest efforts to imagine what could have happened, given what is known - all the while aware that they are actually 'best guessing'. This isn't lying or being disrespectful to the victim - it's simply an attempt to identify possibilities, and address how those possibilities could be dealt with to reduce/remove the risks involved. That is all I have seen happen in this thread. There has been some speculative comment for sure, some of which with new 'real' information can be discounted as a causal factor in what happened. No one has been intentionally mean though.
The fact is though that accidents will be discussed in places like this and I can imagine reading such discussions could be distressing for the family. We don't allow use of names but for the rest the incidents are a matter of public record. Whether families choose to read such discussions is a matter for them to decide. Correcting errors when they actually know more facts than have been available is extremely helpful and welcome. Please feel free to contact me personally (or through DandyDon as you already know how to reach him!)
Secondly,
I have actually been asked to delete certain posts in the thread. Right now I can't see how to do that without destroying the context of the discussion. If I receive PMs suggesting ways to edit the thread while maintaining it's coherency I'm more than prepared to take them under consideration.