I do feel sorry for you, everyone else involved, including the poor DM. The unfortunately lost diver screwed up badly and paid dearly but he did it to himself. That the DM didn't think of the best words at a time of tragedy is understandable enough.
Yep.
Yeah, if you want a blog site where no one is allowed to comment, there are many free ones available on the net. You may not get many readers unless you present your case very differently than you have here, but you can. Here, we comment, hopefully for the good of all.
FBMom, you don't list your training certs or dive location experiences on your profile, but if you want to dive with babysitting DMs, your choices are limited. I've been fortunate to have dived here and there all around North America and some of the Caribbean, and I have survived some serious screw ups on my own, but babysitting DMs are not the norm. Just depends on where you go, whom you go with, and what terms - but it's rare. Was not the case for me in Puget Sound's San Juans, California, St.Lawrence, North Carolina, Exumas, Biminis, Roatan, Belize, etc - often not the case in the Florida Keys or Cozumel even, depending on the sites & Ops.
Where have you dived that you became so accustomed to babysitting DMs, please...?
Eh, PF - I know you dive Coz where they do tend to watch your closer, but most places look at your C-card and accept that you are certified. "When you leave the US, you leave the US. Questions?" Out the Caribbean, rules are only guidelines - suggestion. I did 100 ft on my third Resort Dive, then got certified. It wasn't right, but it happens.
Sorry the couple did not do their pre-trip research with us here on New Divers forum, but most don't bother. It's usually more of "Let's try scuba and see if we like it?" Luck is such a kind lady overall.
Just wanted to say: Well Said!
I do wonder? Anyone know if narcosis can be established in a post mortem? I don't think so, but I don't know? And I am wondering about that 300+ ft dive computer log too...?
Oh good idea, but I doubt the Operator would want to post here - while dealing with the real investigations there, and since it all sounds weak.
FBMom, I see that you are not open to correction. Best wishes...