DiveGolfSki:I just picked up on this thread and have to commend you on your actions. You can be my buddy anytime. I hope your wife recovers completely.
On a side issue, there's been a lot of talk of O2 on boats (they should be) but even if they did, one never knows if they work. According to you profile, you are deco and trimix certified. Did you have a decompression gas clipped on (100% 02 usually)? I noted that this was supposed to be a NDL dive so maybe the need for one was eliminated? It seems to me that one of the advantages of being tech diver (I assume you're one) is the carry of your own source of oxygen.
Again, my commendation to you and hope your wife fully recovers.
Actually, the Cedarville doesn't get any deeper than 100 ft. I wouldn't be suprised if I heard that they were diving Nitrox and no stages. Also, the O2 bottle wouldn't have the on-demand reg like the DAN O2 kits. So the DAN O2 kits would be preferred.