Nope, didn't miss anything. I just didn't think that it was relevant to the exchange you and I were having, or you would have mentioned in when you responded to me. To ME you said
The OP got lackadaisical dm treatment...And as for poor service, it was what it was.
When all along I've been advocating debriefing her, this didn't seem like what you were saying to ME. If that WAS what you were saying to me, then yes, I did miss that.
I'm curious about what your perspective would be if this happened at your shop, with one of your DMs. Would you want to know? Or do you think "poor service, it was what it was."
-kari
Ah. So you just don't look at a response in it's entirety. Got it. I just didn't want to repeat it, so I cut to saying it only once at the end of the two posts. I'll try not to multi quote in a response for you.
To answer your bottom questions- As a boat owner, my customers and dms talk freely about every aspect of the dive. My dm's are usually the very first to talk about issues and problems. The customers are always talking because they know we are very safety concerned and want to know of any issues, no matter how small, even. My dm's are never scared to tell of mistakes because they aren't afraid of our reactions, and they want to be the best they can be.
And if you are on a boat daily, you know that sometimes, things happen. And when they do, those little inconveniences all seem to happen on the same day. An inflator hose sticks, a diaphram needs adjusting, someone pulls their weight release on the boat and now it has to be restrung (we rent out Zeagles, it takes a few minutes to restring the pockets), someone forgot their left bootie, a tank got loaded that had a cover on it but was not filled. It happens. It is how it is dealt with that makes a good trip. All of this is why everyone should check their own gear and make sure that their dm's are doing the problem solving and anticipating of issues, instead of maid service by changing everyone's gear over.
We debrief, have a "how did the dive go" talk after the day is done. We sit down and relax and discuss the boats. It makes us a smooth group who knows what is going on. We know our customers well. We are not a big tourist destination and have lots of repeat business. This makes for a family atmosphere. My customers usually help unload the boat as much as the staff.
Do you dive a boat regularly? Do you run a boat or dm one? What do you do? How do you run it? Just wondering about your perspective. I know many instructors who take their students out, but don't work on the boat themselves.
Expectations either way should be of high quality-safe boat and site briefings, knowledgable about the site and dive, capable f problem solving, good people skills, and professional.