I agree at a high level with your assessment on this, but I think there is a difference between checking a gauge and 'checking and showing' a gauge. I see the two intertwined above.DIR-Atlanta:I
The whole "show the SPG" step (which is no longer taught by GUE) was a kind of "marriage" between two schools of thought regarding gas sharing.
Originally, some of the GUE tech folks were teaching students to show their SPGs, while the cave folks were not...
Checking the available gas helps in the decision process on what to do next.
.. Stopping to check the gauge at that point doesn't really tell you anything useful, IMO (speaking as a "primarily cave" diver)...
At any rate, when it came time to standardize the curriculum, the cave guys conceded on the "check the SPG" step, as a way of forcing students into a more measured response to the emergency. They were already teaching the cave students to take a few seconds to calm everyone down before exiting, and stopping to check the SPG kind of fulfilled that requirement, so that's what they all agreed to do...
In Kevrumbo's scenario (three person team, restricted passage), I agree that the team needs to evaluate their remaining gas supply before entering the restriction....
The currently donating diver needs to be sure that he will exit the restriction with sufficient gas to get him or her the rest of the way out...
At that point, however, it is a team decision, and not just for the benefit of the diver who is OOG. The currently donating diver will need to have a good idea of how much gas he will need for the exit, and will need to advise the remaining team members that the OOG diver needs to switch........
..So I don't really see how checking the gauge helps in that situation - if anything, it probably creates even more stress...
OW diving is a slightly different animal though - if your only option to is to surface immediately (like in the cave scenario), then there's not much point to an SPG check, as far as I can see. However, if an SPG check helps your team with "what to do next", then maybe there is some merit to adding that step.
I would as a donor always check the gauge even if it is to create a 'force of habit'. This way we can change plans (if possible) along the way should consumption be more than expected.
But as mentioned before, the recipient effectively does not need to know and adding the step to have the recipient see and verify adds time and possibly stress. (try to do this in single file scenario, or even in a wreck with heightened stress levels and silt on the floor...and let me know). Gas rules are there to manage available gas for these scenarios, the donor merely verifies that all is going according to plan and makes changes if required/needed/possible.
ps: i edited the quote to focus on the check vs. check and show.