Almost all I do is cold water (Great Lakes). All I can say is practice, practice, practice. Of course, since I learned in cold, I'm sure that going the other way is a lot simpler. And it depends what you consider cold. At around 60F, I switch to my thick wetsuit, as it's simpler than drysuit diving. Adding surf entry to the learning curve, will add frustration. Best approach is to minimize task loading, until you have stop thinking about the task. I did a handful of drysuit dives in a pool when I first got my suit. Shell suit, with track pants and a T shirt. Spent all my time working of smooth descent/ascent and buoyancy control. if you can hover in 12 feet of water, move slowly up to 8 feet and hover, then slowly ascend to the surface, diving at 40 feet and deeper becomes dead simple. After you stop having to think about buoyancy, then you can add cold.
My one tip for drysuit diving, remain horizontal. Aside for an initial descent, feet down, once I am horizontal, I stay there, including ascent. As soon as you start to shift from horizontal to vertical, the air in your boots and legs will rush to your chest, squeezing your feet and very quickly making you positively buoyant. Learn to accept some squeeze. The less air in your suit and the less ballast you carry (lead), the easier it will be. And contrary to many teachings, I was taught to use BC for fine control and only add enough air to my suit to counter squeeze and keep warm. And ditch the ankle weights. If you want a bit more weight on your feet, get an old school pair of rockets and spring straps.
Good luck.