I see most of the replies are from cold water divers. Maybe most of the WWD’s (warm water divers) are busy diving and haven’t had the chance to reply yet.
I think recreational divers get in the water because they want to dive, I read above: “cold water divers dive because they want” I don’t know of any WWD’s getting in the water at gun point. For the most part they have a smile in their face when they go in, could be they know they’re not about to freeze their tale off.
I also believe that there are 2 types of cold water divers the ones that go into cold Open Waters and the ones that go in landlocked water holes.
I base this belief on their different performance once they go to dive sites with temperatures more fit for humans instead of penguins.
Divers from the North Sea, California, Washington, and all those horribly cold open water areas tend to have a blast on warm water dives; they go down, explore all over then come up and are ready to go at it again.
The inland divers I’ve seen as a general rule have a horrible time in boats unless the vessel is big enough to fit a picnic table on deck. They have close to perfect buoyancy control; do take forever and a day to plan the simplest 85’ dive, then another eternity for touching and over-touching every piece of gear. Then after all that, they don’t do anything with all that perfection; go down perfectly horizontal to a certain point, don’t get close enough to the bottom to check all the wonders in between small places, stay perfectly horizontal for the duration of their dive and then perfectly horizontal they go up.
This is what I’ve seen in the last few decades. So I supposed it is a matter of defining in advance what you call a good or better diver.
Right now I’m dealing with what I consider cold water conditions, like others mentioned even the term cold is subjective. 63 degree water is stupidly cold for me, I have to deal with the dry suit, undergarments, lots of lead, and can’t pee during the dives the way I like. But I’ll escape to the good side of Florida as many weekends as I can to keep my skills down, no way I want to ever hear myself say “hmm I like it better when I need 10 tons of crap to avoid hypothermia, because that makes me better”
I would live under a bridge of a warm water and air area before going to a place where there is no open water and/or the water temps stay below 75 every single day of the year.
You Cold Water Divers can have all the titles you need in order to deal with your reality. I’ll take the “lousy diver” label and be warm and happy.