RedSeaDiver2
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Most importantly - how is the survivor doing?Full disclosure, I did not know the deceased, but I was the full cave instructor of the survivor and I am friends with several friends of the deceased. We're all in shock.
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Most importantly - how is the survivor doing?Full disclosure, I did not know the deceased, but I was the full cave instructor of the survivor and I am friends with several friends of the deceased. We're all in shock.
As someone who has no knowledge of anyone involved in this tragic incident, an analogy is exactly what I took away from that comment.
Most importantly - how is the survivor doing?
Yes, obviously gathered. Making jokes about it on an internet forum to demean the victim the day after has nothing to do with gathering facts or data. How is this disagreeing with anything I said?I disagree. The sooner evidence and facts are gathered, the better. Time tends to have an effect on memory.
Tragedy affects us all differently. When my son died years ago, I resented those who came up and told me "I know what you're going through." No. No the eff you don't.I hope you can understand when I say I'm going to refrain from answering, but put yourself in their shoes for a moment. How would you be doing?
Sorry for your loss.Anyway it's a shame that someone had to die. I lost my wife a year ago on Memorial Day weekend in a plane crash. I saw her burn to death. She was my favorite cave diving buddy.
That is the most intelligent question asked on this entire thread.Most importantly - how is the survivor doing?
I think that we all understand that they aren't going to be doing cartwheels down the street at the moment, would your assessment be "about as well as can be expected"?I hope you can understand when I say I'm going to refrain from answering, but put yourself in their shoes for a moment. How would you be doing?
I think that we all understand that they aren't going to be doing cartwheels down the street at the moment, would your assessment be "about as well as can be expected"?
Is he/she getting the support that they need - both from the dive community and counsellors etc?
Please convey from all of us that he/she certainly did all that could be expected of them in the circumstances, and that we are all glad that they made the decision to return to the surface when they did to avoid a double tragedy - please reassure them that it was the right and only decision.
As someone from another country who doesn't know the people or locations involved, I don't feel like I know much about this accident at all from reading this thread.As long as basic facts are known like in this case then I don't see any need to wait any longer. In this case we know the basic facts - cave divers in a cave, one on a rebreather - who wedged himself into a restriction so badly that neither he nor his buddy could free him, and the buddy made the correct decision to leave the victim. There isn't a lot to speculate on as it is reasonably clear what the basic problem was.