Should I start with a basic affordable well reviewed fin like this then see?
Oceanic Viper Open Heel Fins
This will depend a great deal on your (1) Budget, (2) Location and (3) Personal Requirements.
There is a wide range of basic, no-frills, fins on the market that serve the basic purpose of providing effective motion to scuba divers and snorkellers.
I think the Mares X3 or Quattro is an excellent all-round fin, suitable for beginners.
There are also high-end fins that offer particular benefits in terms of power, efficiency, ease of use and manoeuvrability.
Examples of these are:
Scubapro Jetfins ( + power, dexterity, ruggedness / - weight, effort)
Scubapro Splitfins (+speed, effort / - dexterity, ruggedness)
Force Fins (+ efficiency, easy, effort, ruggedness / - power)
Masks are a critical purchase. An ill-fitting, leaky mask will ruin your dives and considerably raise your stress/anxiety levels.
Have a seach of the forum, because there have been some really informative threads on mask selection recently.
Also will be getting gear for my wife.
Any gender specific suggestions?
When it comes time to buy a BCD and wetsuit, there are specific models that are cut/designed for women. These are worth investigating.
Many brands also offer their products in colors/designs that may be appreciated by female divers.
For example, the
MARES She-Dives range
Any other must haves for a basic start?
If possible, it makes sense to amass some experience before making any major purchasing decisions. More experience equals more knowledge on what your personal requirements will be.
As you progress in experience, research the market and see what is available. Try out different kit whenever you get the opportunity.
Be aware that the rental equipment you will most likely be using for your training, equates to (typically) the low-end of the market. Your ideal choice of purchase equipment should not be an attempt to replicate the kit you use for training.
Also be aware that your dive instructor/school has a vested interest in selling equipment to you. That doesn't mean you shouldn't buy from them.... but do some independent research before making a decision (exactly as you are doing here and now on the forum).
Don't believe the cynics who say that all/most dive instructors/schools will sell you the wrong, or most expensive, equipment just to make a profit... but be aware that there are some bad apples in the industry. Having said that, always remember that your instructor needs money to put food on the table... if you respect and trust them, then please repay good service by being a loyal customer.
Lastly, try to predict what your long-term diving needs will be...and choose your equipment accordingly. Obviously, this is difficult during your initial stages in learning to dive. Many divers end up completely replacing their equipment within a year or two of making their initial purchases. They lose money. Hence my advice to hold off with big purchases until you can really identify your current
and future requirements.