DaleC
Contributor
I am enjoying the discussion and will cop to being one of the pranksters :mooner: I just think that the subject can be so divisive and, having heard it many many times, I never have seen one side persuade the other to change their views.
It is interesting that someone brought up the Jewish - no pork point as this is similar to my reasons for not eating meat in general (No I'm not Jewish). It is part of a faith that, at a certain point in my life, I decided to deepen my commitment to. There is no health or political motivation for me.
Like trying to convince a Jewish person that they should eat pork, trying to convince me to eat meat is an exercise that won't work. I used to eat meat. I liked the taste of meat. I've grown up on farms and enjoyed fishing. Have butchered cows, chicken, castrated sheep and even put down my own pets but like the Jewish and their ham sandwiches I just won't bite. It has nothing to do with the meat.
Having said that, you don't see a lot of Jews trying to convince non Jews to give up pork and likewise I don't try to "convert" others to becoming non meat eaters. It's a very personal choice in my mind, I know others don't walk the same path and I don't judge them for it. I don't concern myself with the "morality" of others (I have a hard enough time worrying about my own) and try to keep in mind that nobody likes a zealot. The only time I might comment is when someone asks me directly (and usually I joke around) or is considering making the same faith based commitments I have.
My wife is a "carnivore" as are my kids and most of our social group is as well. I never bring up the subject. We all know that I don't eat meat and they do and nobody complains or cares. If anything, it brings us closer together as a community. I cook delicious "meaty" meals for them and they reciprocate by cooking a vegetarian option for me. I appreciate the fact that we can think of others that way. I don't know if my actions will ever convince any of them to "switch sides" though I do believe you catch more bees with honey than vinegar. I do care that my kids see me modeling the behavior of sticking to a commitment even when it asks that you give up something you might otherwise desire (I loved ham and fishing). That will be infinitely more important to them in this lifetime than whether they eat meat or not.
I don't expect anyone to adopt my viewpoints nor do I feel the need to defend them. It is mainly a non issue to me. I do want to sit down with Papa bear though. Me with my veggie burger and he with his steak, and we'll hopefully talk about what is really important; diving!
It is interesting that someone brought up the Jewish - no pork point as this is similar to my reasons for not eating meat in general (No I'm not Jewish). It is part of a faith that, at a certain point in my life, I decided to deepen my commitment to. There is no health or political motivation for me.
Like trying to convince a Jewish person that they should eat pork, trying to convince me to eat meat is an exercise that won't work. I used to eat meat. I liked the taste of meat. I've grown up on farms and enjoyed fishing. Have butchered cows, chicken, castrated sheep and even put down my own pets but like the Jewish and their ham sandwiches I just won't bite. It has nothing to do with the meat.
Having said that, you don't see a lot of Jews trying to convince non Jews to give up pork and likewise I don't try to "convert" others to becoming non meat eaters. It's a very personal choice in my mind, I know others don't walk the same path and I don't judge them for it. I don't concern myself with the "morality" of others (I have a hard enough time worrying about my own) and try to keep in mind that nobody likes a zealot. The only time I might comment is when someone asks me directly (and usually I joke around) or is considering making the same faith based commitments I have.
My wife is a "carnivore" as are my kids and most of our social group is as well. I never bring up the subject. We all know that I don't eat meat and they do and nobody complains or cares. If anything, it brings us closer together as a community. I cook delicious "meaty" meals for them and they reciprocate by cooking a vegetarian option for me. I appreciate the fact that we can think of others that way. I don't know if my actions will ever convince any of them to "switch sides" though I do believe you catch more bees with honey than vinegar. I do care that my kids see me modeling the behavior of sticking to a commitment even when it asks that you give up something you might otherwise desire (I loved ham and fishing). That will be infinitely more important to them in this lifetime than whether they eat meat or not.
I don't expect anyone to adopt my viewpoints nor do I feel the need to defend them. It is mainly a non issue to me. I do want to sit down with Papa bear though. Me with my veggie burger and he with his steak, and we'll hopefully talk about what is really important; diving!