seaducer
Contributor
One thing you will learn quickly from posting here on SB, it is almost impossible to not offend someone. Some people (and I really am not referencing anybody who has posted on this thread), it seems, just come onto SB to confront people. While this can be a PITA, it really does trigger some pretty good debates and you get to see a lot of good perspectives on problems and also how people handle themselves when "called on". A problem with some of the posters on SB is that "Wikipedia and Google are their friends".
I don't think anyone got offensive on this thread, did they? I didn't pick up on it at any rate. I don't mind a good passionate debate with facts and perspectives, and hopefully respect. I have come to realize both on SB and elsewhere, some people have a martyr complex. Nobody has the right to not be offended. At the same time I try not to be offensive, but sometimes you just gotta let em have it
Anyway, I personally think this thread has alot of value for the new diver. Leaving aside the "who is responsible" arguement, I think the new diver reading this gets a feel for how things are conducted in the real world, and I hope it enables one or two to have the stones to abort a dive where they are really feeling uncomfortable. And I hope it drives home the point that nobody cares about you the way you do, so don't let someone talk you into doing something you are afraid to do. Know your limits and push them wisely.