There is no reason to believe that an entire Dive Operation would deny a majority a more challenging dive because a minority of divers want/need/are not able to comfortably or safely make the same dive. New Divers need to develop experience and should be offered the opportunity to make fun dives in their ability/comfort range but these divers also have a responsibility to book/ensure what they are booking /paying for.
Of course, but that isn't really the point of this thread (people signing up for the wrong boat). The original poster was saying that it seems a disproportionate amount of accidents seem to happen at dive resorts where it seems there is no sense of safety. This thread will go around in circles blaming the divers or the divemasters, so I won't get into that again. But if you read through the whole thread and see some first hand accounts, it doesn't seem like these are just cases of people signing up for the wrong trip. People are being put into akward situations where they have to make difficult choices that really shouldn't need to be made in the first place.
Whoever's "fault", whether it's the diver's, the divemasters, or the resorts themselves, read through this thread, it seems pretty obvious something isn't right with these places. As one poster not too far before us put, a friend of his had to quit because he was expected to to put quick money before safety. And I guess just training in the USA where safety seems to always be the number one concern, this is a bit shocking to me.
I admit I was probably a bit harsh in my original criticisms of the individuals involved, when it now seems as though this is a more systematic problem. I guess I take this seriously because I'm so inexperienced that I take advice from other divers, especially those who are more experienced, and especially those who are "professionals" very seriously. I'm not going to be a complete moron, but at the same time I am inclined to trust them. And so far that has worked great for me, because they all were people who I felt I could trust and who gave me great advice.
So I guess that's why I probably got a little carried away with this issue: it's easy to say after the fact "you should know your limitations", but it's tough when you have limited experience to reject what someone who should know 10x more than you is saying. And as a new diver, I just don't know my own comfort zones yet, so it's difficult to put up an argument about what I feel is safe for me and what I don't. It seems it's mostly newer divers who are frustrated in this thread, and I think it's because most of us could see ourselves in these same situations (some have been in them) where bad advice is leading to tragic consequences.