A G250HP main diaphragm other than colour is the same as a G250 diaphragm, dimension wise, did SP ever approve it as a substitute, no, but unofficially they advise one as a substitute.
Last time I tried to order G250V exhaust diaphragms I was advised they were NLA but again SP suggested using a G260 diaphragm in its place, again official approval was never given to my knowledge.
A G250V adjustment knob fits a G250 because other than being satin it's the same, no approval has been given.
The conversion to S-wing poppet was approved.
Using a G250 graphite diaphragm friction ring in a G250 was never approved but it can be done and why not, it's the same reg for all intents and purposes. Would a shop not change it because it's not the same part number as one found on a G250, I guess for liability reasons they may not, but come on
I understand for liability concerns a shop will shy away but I highly doubt that's the reason the shop told him not to buy one, given they cannot be purchased new the only reason I can think of is they are trying to sell him a new reg.
Service kits are still available so they can still be officially serviced. If service kits were no longer available and they were particular to that reg I could understand a shop saying stay away.
I also assume the shop does not sell them second hand or perhaps they would recommend one, I don't know.
I take your point re liability concerns, I'm not a shop, but as I said I don't think that's why the shop said it and for the average consumer there is no reason at all to steer clear of them just because you can't buy new cases as there are millions of them floating around.
In most cases I'd hazard the average shop tech knows very little about discontinued models, not a criticism, just a fact.
@Nemrod you cannot fit a G260 barrel into a G250.