I have not attacked anybody and I am not trying to make anybody do anything. (I think that would be you.)
No, that would be the OP and about half the other posters. Whenever this topic comes up, the anti-LP side is condemning and dictating that we support our LDS. Meanwhile, very few if any on the LP ever condemn those who shop the LDS.
I'm doing neither. My only concern is that people who need a lot of hand holding and assistance don't shop LP, because if enough of them demand LDS level service, LP will meet that demand, and raise prices to do it. I also don't believe in asking the LDS to match LP prices, because if that happens often enough, they'll have to cut services. There's enough business for both sides, and each side can serve those customers they serve best.
I don't care for your comments suggesting I don't know how to do what is best for my daughter.
If you're not used to that by now, you should be. Every parent hears it constantly these days. Our government, at various levels, makes a career out of telling parents that, and sometimes backing it up with draconian coersion. You don't have to agree with me, and, as far as I'm concerned, it's up to you how to raise your kids, but when you talk about it publicly, it's also everyone else's right to express their opinion about your practices. Honestly, if having a teenager hasn't thickened you skin enough to hear/read a little criticism, I don't know what else will.
While I use a BPW, I don't believe everybody else has to.
IF as you claim, that was a RATIONAL, OBJECTIVE, and NON-EMOTIONAL choice, THEN it would be your rational, objective belief that that is the optimum design, and the only rational position would be that everyone else should also use it. The only alternative is that either it wasn't a rational choice on your part, or you believe others should not make rational choices.
Am I saying you should be running around with a club beating other people into doing what you think is right? No, but that doesn't preclude you holding a position that they SHOULD, and when the individual in question is your child, who is both your responsibility and under your authority, and presumably you're paying the bills, then it's not only your right, but your responsibility to enforce the benefit of your more experienced, mature, and rational judgment. Otherwise, whatever is a parent for; just emancipate the kid and leave her to her own devices.
Call me crazy, but when fewer than 10% of American teens can't make it to high school graduation without messing up the simplest of decisions like whether or not to use recreational drugs, I don't understand why anyone would trust them to make intelligent decisions regarding something as nuanced as the optimal design for life support equipment. Maybe your kid's a prodigy, but her choice not to use a BPW militates against the presumption that she applied that potential to this particular decision.