Yes, I have a negative attitude towards DIR to some degree. Fostered largely by my local community. And while I recognize that that community is not representative of all, or even necessarily the majority of DIR members, I still come to the table with the experiences I have had.
But to your non ad hominum point: isn't the devil in the details?
My dives are planned, including contingency procedures. My gear configuration and my buddies are well thought out to the type of diving we do, we practice basic skills and safety procedures and so on. We even include many bits of gear and configuration that are more or less part of the DIR gear requirements.
But in no way would be considered to be diving DIR.
From the outside looking in, and reading the Fundamentals book, all I can find that is uniquely DIR is about the gear configuration, and standardized gases. Something that is true of many other groups as well.
Yet within DIR there's a remarkable tendency to point out that someone is a DIR diver. Something not seen to such a degree with other agencies. Along with a contention that those who are not diving DIR are unsafe to one degree or another.
Outside of gear, what is uniquely DIR beyond the assertion that DIR is a holistic system, and therefore safer, and every other system isn't?