For example, SDI's Deep is only one deep dive to 100 ft. It does not make an advanced diver. I am not going to take that route for my advanced training.
As others have said, me included, AOW is not for advanced training. That would be a misnomer (haven't seen that term used yet referring to AOW, so thought I'd use it.) It's to advance your diving experience.
The route for my advanced diver training will be to take each of the full specialties, earning a certification for each of them, and to take them in a logical order with enough dives in between so that I am more fully prepared for the next specialty. I would then end up with SDI's Advanced Diver card and probably actually be an advanced diver. Say I choose Nav, Nitrox, Deep, and Wreck. Four solid specialties that should make a truly advanced diver ready to start diving wrecks in the NE. I could take Nav first and then continue navigating over a few additional dives in different environments with increasing difficulty to solidify that training before moving on to the next specialty. One of the post-navigation dives can be diving after a group of AOW students mucked up the visibility and I really need a compass. Move on to Nitrox and then Deep and finally Wreck maybe earning one or two more cards such as Solo or Sidemount on the way.
I do like the way you have laid out a plan for yourself to take courses to become a more advanced diver. It sounds as if you are very committed to the process. I'm not as committed as you, although if I were taking a special trip that required, say cave diving experience, I would take the required course for the specialty certification. Getting all of those certifications can be $$$.
So will I miss some advanced dives this coming August while on vacation because I didn't jump right in to AOW after OW and get 'certified'? Sure, I will but as stated above I want to be an advanced diver not just have the certification. But I know next year's vacation I will not only have the certification, but truly be an advanced diver (although something tells me that the DM this go around will be quite happy with my current skills and would probably let me on an advanced dive if I asked if not coming outright and inviting me).
As a vacation diver, since getting OW in 1998, my experience is that many, if not most, outfits will take you on dives that supposedly require AOW, so you won't necessarily miss some "advanced dives". Every year on my vacations in mostly warm, clear water, I am taken 70 ft. and deeper, on wreck swim throughs, and on drift dives with the dive shops I've gone with, and work with my compass when I do shore dives. No AOW needed.
To say that in the time from one vacation to the next you will be an advanced diver is also not necessarily so. You may be "advanced" by way of certification (just like an AOW with 5 dives), but only truly advanced if you are able to practice those specialties repeatedly and get lots of diving experience. I currently dive 4 weeks out of the year (vacations) which is far less that what a lot of the seasoned divers on SB dive, but know I'm a much better diver than people (including advanced) I wind up on a dive boat with.
I'm planning to get my AOW this fall (on vacation) just in case I run into one of those diving shops that may require AOW, although in my diving experience, that seems to be extremely rare, although others have documented it on SB. I probably would never have even entertained the idea if not for reading SB!
One of the post-navigation dives can be diving after a group of AOW students mucked up the visibility and I really need a compass.
I have to share about several boat dives I was on with an "advanced diver" who had a $2000+ camera/light setup. He was an "expert" in many things. He nosed that camera into every nook and cranny there was something to take a picture of with little regard to his lights hitting coral, preventing others from seeing, and mucking up the bottom. Just saying anyone can muck up the bottom.